Newstovote - That afternoon, hanging in the sky violet Bali. On the ground that many travelers visits, a pair of human beings as lively as dead pledge allegiance. Gisella Anastasia and Gading Marten. They completed a long dream. Married on the beach at sunset on the western horizon.
"We do want the wedding intimate, personal, and different atmosphere, " said Gading .
Gading and Gisella is one of a number of Indonesian artist couple who held a private wedding. In a wedding held in the chapel on the beach Uluwatu, Bali, 14 September 2013, they both only invite 250 guests. Quite a bit of celebrity to the size of the country.
Private wedding concept itself is still foreign to the ear of Indonesian society. Generally, people held a wedding party attended by many relatives and siblings. It also makes wedding plans private Gisella and Gading was constrained. Gisella parents for example, opposed the concept though ultimately approve.
Gading Gisella and happy. In the wedding party, they do not stand in the aisle. Accompanied by romantic music chant, they mingle with the guests. Atmosphere more festive fireworks when slid to the high heavens.
If Gisella and Gading invite 250 guests, another case with Ruben Onsu and Tan Wenda. The only celebrity couple to bring 150 guests in their private wedding in Nusa Dua, Bali, last October 22, 2013. His second marriage took place with emotion.
Private wedding concept also alluring Nikita Mirzani artist. Marriage to a man named Sajad Ukra in South Jakarta, October 11, 2013, only 150 people attended. Artist who often reap the sensation did not use the services of wedding organizer.
Before them, there are some artists who held their wedding with a similar concept. Just look at Vino Bastian and Marsha Timothy, or Makki ' Purple ' with Hamid Lala.
Increasingly Popular
In addition to artists, private wedding also favored ordinary people. They generally have a party interested in a more personal and intimate with the guests. Concept derived from abroad is also increasingly popular.
"
We started up from 2008. And several times to handle the concept of a
private wedding, " said Flower of Flowers Wedding Organizer.
He said that the concept of private marriage today is still a trend. Has not been adopted in line with the culture of Indonesian society. Most brides try this concept out of boredom with the monotony of the wedding party.
Sociologists and social observer, Devi Rahmawati revealed a more private party is not really a new thing in Indonesia. This phenomenon usually occurs in big cities.
Young children who were born in the big city accustomed to living individualistic. They are more often spend time just with the nuclear family. As a result, the relationship between a family and is limited.
" In contrast to a wedding in the past, " said Devi.
Devi admits, patterns hold a wedding more personal and the personal life imitating people in other countries. However, he did not deny that the concept has its own advantages and disadvantages. Negative, the concept of private wedding minimize the opportunity for someone to meet with relatives and relatives. In terms of positives, the party becomes more efficient.
" Because they only invite people who are known. Feast so much simpler and more meaningful, " he said.
In view of Devi, it is not a big problem and serious. He considered the matter it is a part of the community response. "If a regular city life, traditional marriage may still be maintained, " he said.
More Luxurious
Although a limited number of guests does not mean the cheap wedding private. Quite the opposite . Party with more personal concepts that sometimes requires a greater cost than the usual party.
"The
cost is far greater than the grand wedding, could double. Grand
wedding for example if the unit can be $ 30, while private wedding
could be $ 60. Fact be $ 100 for one person, " said Flowers
.
Based on his experience , brides who choose this concept tends to hold a wedding outside of the city. Of course, the greater the cost. In addition, the decoration was made extra special and luxurious. Food any different than a regular party.
"
It must be provided some beautiful spots to place photos. Private
wedding also have a longer time in a regular party appeal, " he said.
In fact, often the bride call up special band to entertain the guests. Or also deliberately hire the services of Disc Jockey ( DJ ) to enliven the atmosphere.
"If guests invited young guests, can enjoy the music from the DJ in the hours of 10 pm and dancing together, " he said.
Regarding private wedding costs relatively more expensive than a regular party , recognized Ivory and Gisella. To realize his dream party, Ivory must pay no less. According to Roy Marten 's son, he took a lot of work ahead of her wedding.
"
Married because it is once in a lifetime , there's no harm in looking
for work abound . Be more satisfied, " said the man 's full name
Angling Gading.
In line with Gading, Ruben also issued a small cost to make a party of their dreams. Ruben recognized, he must prepare substantial funds for the marriage. In fact, Ruben bring orchestral musicians from Surabaya to entertain the guests in attendance. Plus to accommodation in Bali, three clothes they wear will increase the length of their budget.
" Budget is moderate. But, we can discount, " said Ruben encountered in Pondok Indah, South Jakarta.
In addition, Donna and Darius as host at their wedding. Ruben claimed no problems with budgets beyond prediction. He sincerely hope this is the first and last marriage.
"
It was my choice. Then, when there is a problem, we will think many
times as it struggles to be like this not easy, " he said.
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